Just a random thought on a Monday night

Surveys shows that men cheat more than women.

Maybe true, maybe not. I was just wondering, is it because men got caught more than women? I mean, come on, admit it. It doesn't show in any survey or any science experiment on which gender is most likely to cheat.

It doesn't mean if you're a man, you cheat more than a woman. It also doesn't mean that if you're a woman, you cheat any less than a man.

I think it comes down to who get caught the most.

Maybe men are more careless when it comes to hiding their evidences. As for women, we're more detail oriented, so that's why we take extra precautions if we ever did cheat.

I think, being female, we rely on our gut instinct more.

If we think our partners are suspecting something, we might stop the affair for a while and let things go back to normal. Our instinct also tells us if our significant other is cheating. Yes, all female have this so called 'power', we just need to listen to it more often.

Sometimes we're too caught up in the moment that we forget to listen to what our instinct is telling us, hence, stupid things happen.

In short, girls are more feelings-oriented than guys. That is why guys appear to be insensitive, when they're actually not. But then, that's another story for another time.

I'll try to stop sidetracking, and go back to my point. CHEATING.

Surveys also shows that men are more likely to cheat if they have this; CARS. Expensive cars, i might add. The same surveys also shows that they will see what type of cars the guys drive before they decide to be "the other woman".

Makes me wonder. Who's to blame?

We definitely can't blame the car, as it's an inanimate object, with no brains. Should we blame the guys for showing off their expensive cars? Should we blame the girls for being so cheap and materialistic?

A little bit of both, i should say.

Sure girls flirt with you, and your car or bike, and they may make some proposition which you can never refuse. But think about it, if the guys never really agree to the sexual advances of the girls, will the secret rendezvous happen?

Hmmmm, wonder indeed.