Thursday, April 09, 2009

Nobody seemed to care enough to understand why

Sometimes i wonder.

Why do people like to lie so much? Why is honesty now a forbidden trait? Why is it so much easier for people to lie than to tell the truth?

Seriously, i'm not saying i don't lie at all. I did, when i was younger but i don't seem to achieve anything when i lie, except for embarrassment. So from that period onwards, i just stopped lying.

And somehow, i become very honest. Brutally, i might add. People still like me. So what makes you think that people will like you more when you lie? Cause right now, i just proved that people will still like you when you're honest. Especially so when you're honest.

Yeah, of course there'll be a case of bruised ego when it comes to honestly, but atleast your friends and the people around you know that you're trustworthy. Most importantly, you know yourself that you have integrity. With integrity, comes sagacity.

Well maybe it's true, only stupid people lie. Cowards. I don't know why people tend to act so dastardly when it comes to actually saying what is on their mind.

Which one would you prefer? Being told the truth, even though it hurts or being told a lie, which maybe make you feel a little better but once you find out, you've been lied to, you get hurt even worse?

I don't know about you, but to me, being lied to hurts even more than being told the brutal truths.

And i just LOVE it so much when they still find excuses to try and justify their lies when they get caught. There's nothing i love more than to look at them with jubilant stare while they stumble upon their own lies. How exciting, how dramatic. Love it!

I thrive on dramas like this. Oh wee! *rolls eyes*

Anyway, what's with all these people saying what they THINK other people wanna hear? Even so, what makes them think that what other people wanna hear, is not the truth? You know what i mean?

People wants to feel good, for sure. So they tell others what they think they wanna hear, and in return, they hope the other party would say things that make them feel good too. It's just annoying what these pillocks do or say to be liked by people around them.

So tell me, you'd rather be like for WHAT you are (which is a liar) than be loved for WHO you really are?

And tell me, when you lie to these people you called your friends, do you actually have a sense of guilt somewhere? If any, at all. So do you really lie to your friends then?

I wonder indeed.

2 comments:

Huda Elyse R. said...

Hi.

I am totally with you on this post.Why lie rite? Be truthful is the best so people won't misjudge you.

And my opinion is, lying is a very serious addiction. You lie once, get away with it, then lie again, get away with it again, and keep on doing it over and over again until it is normal to you and that you don't feel that you've done anything wrong.Well at least thats my opinion.

And imagine the trouble of making up excuses over and over again.Geez...

But I am totally with you on this post.Love it!

Anonymous said...

i love to be honest better then lying unless i need to but in this world more and more people prefer hiding behind lies then speak the truth and it hurts alot in the end who are soo truthful.. they love to hurt people for fun and its where many people get hurt badly//